Dear Abby: I have been married for 28 years to the perfect man. We married when I was 20 ... located that I turn to the off position?” — Martin in New Jersey Dear Martin: You will find the ...

I love him, but I have reached the point where I have no self-esteem ... BEATEN DOWN AND FED UP DEAR BEATEN DOWN: The man you married is emotionally abusive, selfish and dishonest.